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		<title>let&#8217;s not go back</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Julie Stills Miles at Pragmatic Compendium posted this video that made me laugh and almost cry all at the same time:

I laughed at the ridiculousness of it and how far we have come since those days.  But in some sense, I cried at the irony, because there have been times when I&#8217;ve felt almost that [...]]]></description>
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<p>I laughed at the ridiculousness of it and how far we have come since those days.  But in some sense, I cried at the irony, because there have been times when I&#8217;ve felt <em>almost</em> that separated from the world of business for which I trained.   Not directly from family or friends, but subtle messages from the world at large. </p>
<p>Carla Barnhill speaks of the church&#8217;s pressure on mothers in <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Myth-Perfect-Mother-Rethinking-Spirituality/dp/080106466X">The Myth of the Perfect Mother</a>.  I&#8217;ve been <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/ruminate">ruminating </a>(one of my new favorite weird words) on her message.  Some of it hit home for me and some seemed a little far-fetched.  As soon as I process my thoughts, I&#8217;ll write more.  If you&#8217;re interested, join Carla and her friend Caryn&#8217;s thought-provoking conversations at <a href="http://themommyrevolution.wordpress.com/about/">The Mommy Revolution</a>. </p>
<p>In the meantime, enjoy.  <em>Does something in this video strike a chord with you?</em></p>



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